Relationship Reset
The reset that respects you both
A 6-module journey to help you feel closer, talk without it turning into rows, and remember why you chose each other in the first place.
It’s not about therapy or digging into the past. It’s about giving you quick fixes you can use every day. The kind that actually last. Whether you’re stuck in silence, bickering over the dishwasher, or just want to build strong foundations, this reset gives you tools that make life together easier.
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Start by looking at who you are together – the good, the tricky, and everything in between.
âś” How to check in on how happy you are in your relationship today
âś” What love means to you right now
âś” How your GYGO profiles work together
âś” The strengths and challenges in your compatibility
The way you speak, listen, and respond can make or break your relationship. Learn how to talk so you’re both heard and understood.
✔ How to adapt your communication to your partner’s GYGO profile
âś” Tools to handle tricky conversations without avoiding them
âś” How to spot triggers that turn small things into big arguments
✔ Reset strategies so stress doesn’t run the conversation
Find the balance between what you expect, what is reality, and how you share the load.
âś” How to compare expectations with reality and decide what really matters
âś” How to share roles and responsibilities in a way that feels fair
✔ How to use the 4 D’s to tackle stress points
âś” How to make a simple Stop, Continue, Start plan to change what is not working
Understanding how you and your partner give and receive love and learning to appreciate each other without trying to change who you are.
✔ How to spot your own love language and understand your partner’s
âś” The needs that really matter to each of you in a relationship
✔ How affection can be misread – and how to avoid crossed wires
✔ Ways to create more romantic “sweet spots”, the things that keep love alive
Notice the people and influences that shape your relationship, and learn how to protect your time, energy, and each other.
âś” Who you turn to when you need support, and what that means for your relationship
âś” How outside influences can build you up or drain you down
âś” How to spot negative players (moaners, vampires, cling-ons)
âś” How to set healthy boundaries that protect your relationship
How to set the ground rules that make your relationship feel safe, respectful, and fair. It’s not about being strict, it’s about making sure you both feel loved, listened to, and valued.
âś” How to agree on rules that protect your relationship
âś” Practical ways to stick to those rules day-to-day
âś” How to handle outside pressures without losing focus on each other
✔ A “Stop, Continue, Start” tool to help you reset together
Two ways to grow -Â
You choose
We get it - life’s messy, and change can feel overwhelming. That’s why GYGO courses are designed to meet you exactly where you are, without pressure or judgment. Whether you’re dipping a toe in or diving deep, you’ll get the same transformative content, just delivered in the way that works best for you.
We know that change isn’t one-size-fits-all. That’s why every GYGO course is available in two formats.
Same content. Different experience. Your choice.
Both paths are valid. Both are powerful.
Whether you’re burnt out, stuck, or just ready for something better, GYGO gives you tools to feel more like yourself again. You don’t have to explain where you’re starting from - we already built this with you in mind.
This is your space, your pace.
Perfect if you’re feeling cautious, curious, or just need flexibility. You’ll get full access to the course materials - videos, tools, prompts, and exercises - so you can reflect, explore, and grow in your own time. No calls, no pressure, just you and the content.
It’s ideal if you’re on a budget, short on time, or simply prefer to process things privately.
This is your space,with someone in it.
You’ll get everything in the DIY version, plus personalised support from a GYGO coach who’s trained to walk beside you. That means regular sessions, tailored guidance, and a safe place to unpack what’s really going on.
It’s for you if you’re ready to invest in deeper change, want accountability, or feel like you’ve tried doing it alone and need a different kind of help.
Not sure where to start? Let’s talk
Book a free 15-minute discovery call  -  no pressure, just real support
Sometimes you just need to talk it through. Whether you’re curious about which course fits best, wondering if GYGO is right for you, or feeling stuck and unsure what you need  -  this call is for you. It’s free, it’s friendly, and it’s all about helping you find the next step that actually feels doable. No hard sell. No awkwardness. Just a real conversation with someone who gets it.
You don’t have to figure it all out alone. Let’s take 15 minutes and see what’s possible.
Six stages to reconnect
What is Get You Get Others?
Get You Get Others (GYGO) is a simple but powerful profiling method designed to help people understand themselves and each other more clearly.
It’s not a one size fits all system. GYGO recognises that while we all have a predominant profile shape, every person is unique. We go beyond the basics to explore your communication style, emotional needs, stress responses and personal challenges, giving you a truly tailored insight into how you relate, react and grow.
At the core of all our programmes, products and community, GYGO offers a foundation for real change - in your family, your relationships, your work life, and most importantly, in how you see yourself.
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It starts with a quick profiling quiz to discover your shape, each one linked to specific traits, strengths and blind spots. From there, GYGO helps you:
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Improve communication and connection
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Make better decisions
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Understand your needs and others’ more clearly
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Build stronger relationships at home, school or work
Whatever age or stage you're at, GYGO gives you the tools to show up more confidently in life, not by changing who you are but by understanding who you’ve always been.
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What’s your shape?
Are you more Heart, Square, Diamond, or Circle - and what does that really mean for you? We all have one dominant shape that stands out, but we’re also made up of a mix of the others too. This isn’t about pigeonholing you, it’s about uncovering what drives you, what holds you back, and how to get the best out of yourself and your relationships.
Take the quiz to discover who you truly are.
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All families, relationships, and workplaces are made up of different personalities. The GYGO Shape Profiling System looks beneath the surface, showing your strengths and challenges, your needs, how you communicate, give and receive love, handle stress, and make decisions in everyday life.
Take the free quiz to discover what makes you unique and what you really need to make life feel easier every day.
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Heart
Hearts are the people-pleasers who go above and beyond to keep everyone else happy.
Square
Squares love to get things right, which is why they need structure, routine, and clear expectations.
Diamond
Diamonds thrive on positivity and excitement.
Circle
Circles are confident, direct, and focused on results.
Married 20 years, feeling more like flatmates than partners
"We’d been married for over 20 years and had become more like housemates than partners. We got on fine, but there was no love or romance. The course gave us small, practical things we could actually do straight away. It wasn’t about making big changes, just reminding us why we fell in love in the first place. Now we laugh more, talk more, and feel like we used to all those years ago."
Loving couple stuck in constant arguments
"We love each other very much, but every conversation used to end in either silence or a row. We were always point scoring and bickering about silly things. The course made us see what was setting it off and how to stop the little stuff turning into full-scale blow ups. It’s not perfect, but things are calmer, and we can actually get through a chat without it going wrong."
New relationship, both with messy pasts
"We’d only been together about a year, and we’d both previously been in messy relationships. Neither of us wanted to go through that again so we did the relationship course. We learned how to love and understand each other properly before the bad habits set in. It’s given us confidence we can handle stuff when it comes up, and it feels like this time we’ve got a real shot at making it work."
What We Offer
Real growth. Real people. Real support.
GYGOÂ Community
A private space to connect, share, and get the encouragement you need.
1:1 Coaching
Hands-on support that’s personal, practical, and shaped around what you need.
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 Workshops, Q&As & themed gatherings designed to deepen learning & build belonging.
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